I
sit here sipping a glass of warm water thinking of a friend. By the
way, have read that a warm glass of water is good to start the day with
upon waking. The point? Warm water does not jar or shock your system to
wakefulness but does it better with a gentle nudge. Well that said, this
friend whom I love dearly images that part of us -- that part which
contributes to the misery of the self and the misery of our lives.
You know it's not acceptable to allow yourself to wallow in pity,
hopelessness, fear, bitterness, anger, unforgiving, resentment because these are like
ground bugs (anay) which literally gnaw at your strength, courage,
self-esteem, confidence, hope, faith, and joy. It punctures holes in
your character, your mind, your heart, and soul. Bit by bit you are
reduced to a person engulfed by this dark power of negativity no longer
recognizable from your true self.
But we are told to fight it! So You must do the best that you can with
life; you give it your best shot. Don't give yourself permission to be
miserable. When life hits you with trials, punch back with incremental
changes which can alter your internal landscape. Change from within
(internal) guarantees change from without (external). Be consistent,
persistent, vigorous, determined, and resolute in wanting change. And
you begin TODAY! Nobody can do that for you. It's just you and you owe
that to yourself. GROW YOURSELF. It's tough work (who sez change is
easy?!) but tell yourself that you deserve nothing less than the best!
And last but certainly not the least, ask God our FATHER to recreate you, to restore you to whole again. He WILL!!
Have a blessed Sunday. Love your family. Love yourself. Always love GOD.
Ellen,
ReplyDeleteIt is so true that there is no end to miseries if you start indulging in self-pity. One needs to face what comes with conviction that there is nothing which I can not solve. Life is what one makes it - Happy or Miserable.
Take care
I like this line, Jack.... 'Life is what one makes it - Happy or Miserable.' Thank you for your comment and sharing your thoughts. Blessings to you and your family.
DeleteI agree Ms.Ellen and we all go through this once in awhile..ouch ouch but true..I need to get up again and Trust more..visiting you po ;)
ReplyDeleteThat's the spirit, Sie; to rise from every fall. To hope and trust again and again. Blessings to you and the children, dear friend.
DeleteGrow yourself today! What a great reminder. Thanks for this inspiration.
ReplyDeleteYeah, Kit, that's what I keep reminding myself too. Thank you for coming by and for your comment. Btw, loved that post you did on Palawan. God bless!
DeleteHello Ellen,
ReplyDeleteGreetings and good wishes.
Fantastic advice and very practical. It is good to remember this post when we are down in the depths of despair. There is no point in dwelling in our miseries but to move forward with confidence that God is there to help us at all times.
Best wishes,
Joseph
Indeed true .. 'God is there to help us at all times.' Thank you for coming by, Joseph. So nice to see you again. Wishing you all the best and blessings for you and your loved ones.
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