Claudia Black said this >> "Trust in yourself. Your perceptions are often far more accurate than you are willing to believe."
--- Perceptions about people come from keen observation and insight on those who travel to your own sphere and space. You get a lot of practice because many are sent by God to you for your good learning. You can get better at it from person to person to person. Learn well. It can help you sift through the pebbles to get to the grain.. or something like that.