Friday, May 9, 2014



So what's a relationship?

Mr. Webster says  it's..... 'the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.'

Oh yes, we get that a lot in life. In fact, it rules our life from birth to the grave. It allows us opportunities to ....  laugh or cry, celebrate, dream, succeed or fail, create or build.

It can be your joy or your sorrow, your rainbow in the sky or the thorn in your side.

We can be in good relationships or in bad ones.

Some relationships make you feel chained down, or feel being trampled on, or is something akin to a huge obstinate wall which won't budge no matter how you try.  Don't lose yourself in it. Don't let something like a bad relationship take control of your life. There's no excuse not to even try. And if you fail once or twice, remember what your mother said .... 'if you don't succeed, try again'. Heard this before? --- Drops of water dripping down steadily-continuously-consistently-regularly upon a piece of solid rock will, in time, create a hole in it. Finally.

People are not like solid rocks; they are.......

soft (easy to mold, cut, compress, or fold; not hard or firm to the touch)

fluid (again Mr. Webster defines this as -- 'a substance, as a liquid or gas, that is capable of flowing and that changes its shape at a steady rate when acted upon by a force tending to change its shape'

pliable (easily influenced)

Although yes they can be quite stubborn but essentially, they change. Make them WANT to change.

Just as a salesman tries to win over a potential client, make your dogged (purposeful) pitch. You might succeed or you might lose. But whatever or however it comes out as a result of your effort, know in your heart that you tried! And that in my book or in anybody's book is a ..... thumbs up!

And that's a good one for a smile. Keep that smile on your face. A blessing rolls out for every smile you give or receive. Life is too short not to smile. Bless you!


  1. Replies
    1. Hi Rashi! An enigmatic smile can mean so many different things to many different people. :-) Thank you for taking time to drop by the blog and for that enigmatic smile.

      Have a pleasant day!


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